Sunday, June 6, 2021

ALL OF A KIND FAMILY UPTOWN - by Sydney Taylor

[This is from back in MARCH! I found it whilst I was signing in to write about my latest Janet Lambert read. Since it isn't horrible, I will publish it here. It's a little long because I copied and pasted all the posts I put up. But it is an awesome books!]

April 8, 2021

Well, I have to say that I am a little nervous! I have three VERY tough acts to follow. Carla set us up with some solid background information and stellar recaps. Then Grace made me FALL IN LOVE with a book that I had formerly thought I didn't like and then Jessia pulled so many great stories out of an already beloved book. What am I to do? The answer is to urge you to keep your expectations low.

 
I adore UPTOWN, it is my favorite of the series and rereading it for this group read makes me remember why.

 
I believe the background has been covered - the family has just moved from the lower east side to Uptown and so we begin.


The first chapter is FOOD'S ON THE TABLE. The girls are on the move. We jump right in as they are headed to Lena and Hyman's for supper. On the way they run into Sarah's history teacher and mention is made of a history prize at the end of the year. But I am sure that that is just a side note and definitely won't play into the story later. It turns out that Henny hates history because it's all names and dates the way her teacher teaches it. But Sarah learns it as stories so she loves it. It so often comes down to the teacher and this book really respects teachers, librarians, settlement house workers - all the "female" professions


When the girls get to Lena's there are several clues that something might be amiss. Shall we keep track?

  • There's a new set of dishes. (On Hyman's salary?)
  • There's a new dinette set. (He must be doing well!)
  • There aren't enough places set. (Is Lena getting forgetful?)
  • There isn't much food. (Does she not know how to cook for a crowd??)

Mama is at the Red Cross knitting club because she's a good citizen, and also her kids are grown and the war has started. So the girls are on their own and we get some chat to set up the book. Hey, who is this Jules of whom they speak? Do you think he will be important?


They get to Lena's building and head up to the apartment. There is a note that says to go ahead and eat and since neither Lena or Mama has shown up, they go against their training and dig in. And when they do, their error becomes perfectly clear. THEY ARE IN THE WRONG APARTMENT!!


A complete stranger comes in and it is delightful. The girls are so confident in where they think they are and the lady is too polite to be accusatory. When she sees the food is gone she does freak out a little until everything becomes clear. And yet she is still so kind, explaining how the floors work in his apartment building. As she susses out the story it begins to strike her as funny.

 
Finally Mama and Lena find them and Mama is horrified, of course! This is the Uptown version of your toddler throwing a tantrum at Target. She can't believe her girls have behaved so terribly. But Lena just loses her mind laughing. She can not contain herself and just gets everyone going.


Mrs. Shiner, her upstairs neighbor is in the same boat and she and her family are invited downstairs to eat with the family. And if I may be a little spoiler-y, Mrs. Shiner becomes a dear friend of Lena and shows up throughout the rest of the book because she is AWESOME!


The second chapter is TEA PARTY or HENNY CAN NOT BE TRUSTED AT ALL.

 
I believe this is my second favorite chapter of the series! There is no beating Lena saving Charlie from peril and her life being changed forever because of her bravery, but this is a close second. I love illustrations of selfless sacrifice but also stories of self-centered come-uppances.

 
Let us look at Henny. I have always loved her as a character, but if she were my sister I would never stop tattling on her. She is the WORST!! (Except when she is the best, which is exactly twice in this book. I will point out both instances, so you don't miss them.)

 
Henny is a popular girl. She's confident and that's hot. There is a real Meg/Jo vibe to Ella and Henny. I think one of the things I like about BT is that Julia is allowed to be the more "extreme" sister in the relationship. As the second girl, I am far more partial to Betsy than I am Jo or Henny. But I digress...


They mention "It's a Long Way to Tipperary" which took me by surprise. Music is such an intrinsic part of the BT books, but I never noticed in the AoaKF books. They are set around the same time, of course, but they seem like such different worlds. Anyone care to write some mash-up fan fic?


Henny thinks boys are the worst and they ruin parties. And she's not wrong. But nonetheless, she wants to borrow Ella's party dress and she's not taking no for an answer. When she is denied, the claws come out. Ella is dull and Henny is careless.


Henny pretends to acquiesce but as if to prove Ella's point, she slides the security lock on her sisters' room (virtually ensuring attack from outside forces) to break in later. Then everyone takes hot baths. Papa must be doing well to afford all that hot water!


Henny shrugs off Mama's offer to iron her dress because the game is afoot! And once she leaves for the night, she doubles back and breaks into Ella and Sarah's room to steal that dress!


And it pays off. She's a belle, confident and gorgeous. There's a cute part where the girls are hiding in Rose's bedroom at Henny's all "Let's rip off his band-aid and go see the fellows..."


Henny breaks the gender gap with the hapless Ed Slick-Hair. They talk, they sting, they dance - it's teenage paradise. She gives dance lessons to the hapless boys and yet she is one of the boys. She's the "cool girl". And then it happens - the tug-of-war that Ella predicted would happen, happens. The dress is accidentally stained by tea and ruined.

 
As if to add insult to injury, Henny finds out that Ed is YOUNGER! She regrets every decision that she has made up to this point. She offers Ed to the other girls, like a piece of cake, if you will.

 
Henny has an epiphany - what if the dress is tea stained on purpose?


She and Rose get busy living as they get busy dying. It goes well and she lives such a charmed life that Rose's mom offers to iron it for her once it dries! She has a grand time at the rest of the party, she is clearly a champ at compartmentalization. 


After the party, she comes home, the picture of innocence, and seems to have gotten away with the perfect crime.


But that's actually not the case.


Next Sunday Jules is taking Ella to a dance downtown in the old neighborhood. She goes to get her white dress and freaks out when she sees the ecru dress hanging in its place. Henny is perhaps in a fugue state. The little sisters think it's beautiful and Mama immediately knows what's up.


Compliments are shared. Jules' new blue suit looks amazing. And he is struck down by Ella's "prettiest dress [he's] ever seen". He gives her a rose and a promise that someday he'll give her dozens and dozens of them.


As soon as they are gone, Mama busts out the guilt and Henny confesses and is consigned to do the family wash that week and feels, if not absolved, at least a little bit cleaner.


Okay - here are some questions.

 
Sarah's history teacher seems awesome. Who was your best teacher ever? 

[Mine was Mademoiselle Sully, my middle school French and English teacher. She was friends with my mother and adored me in English and despaired of me in French - but she let me read under my desk all the time and I love her for it. We still correspond.]


It is lovely that Lena and Mrs. Shiner become friends. It's hard to make new friends as an adult! Have you made close friends as a grown up? Any good stories?

[Well, I saved young Will Davis-Kay's neck when he was an infant which endeared me to his mama.]


There is some real truth to this birth order stuff. Where do you fall, sibling-wise? Do you fall into any of the stereotypes?

[I am the picture you see when you look up "middle child" in your Funk and Wagnalls.]


Hey how about that mashup AoaKF/BT fan fic? Who would hit it off? Where would they meet? Come on, you know you want to write it...

[Henny and Winona have a shipboard romance in the early 20s - I'd read the hell out of that!]


Have you ever screwed over your older sister for selfish vain reasons like Henny before the party?

[Never on purpose, but when I was 12 I  called my then 16 year old sister a very bad (if accurate) name and she threw a vase at my head. It was the third worst fight of my life, but I ADORED the drama.]


Have you ever made a huge mistake and yet carried on under pressure like Henny at the party? 

[The night of my senior banquet (we were Baptists, we didn't prom) I was smoking in the car on the way to the after party and burned a few holes in my dress. I knew I would be dead in the morning when my mom found out, but I partied like it was 1999 in the meantime. Although it was really 1984.]


Have you ever faced up to the consequences of your folly and felt better for it like Henny after the party? 

[It is something of a recurring theme in my life. I make stupid mistakes, I face the consequences. I learn virtually nothing from them. Alas...]


And there is your first installment! 


April 10, 2021

I have some bad news. Mama is not well. Luckily, this is the chapter where ELLA TAKES OVER! Going to the hospital now is stressful, but back in the day it was a VERY big deal. I don't know what the percentage of people who entered the hospital and didn't come out was in 1917, but I bet it was a lot. Everyone is worried as Mama gets ready to leave. Well, not everyone -   Charlie is nonplussed but the girls are heavy-hearted as they say goodbye. And once she is gone, he loses it. 


Grace, the lovely landlady's daughter comforts him with a kitten. It turns out it's Mama's appendix and an operation is imminent. Gerite says  what they are all feeling "people die from operations." 


The girls decide, at Ella's urging, that cooking and cleaning will distract them as these tasks have distracted women throughout the ages. Not me, but some women. Ella says growing up means "standing on your own two feet and being your own mountain." Not unlike mustering your wits and standing in your own defense.


Lena and Hyman are up in the Catskills gestating a little stranger so they're no help . Ella was supposed to be working at Uncle Joe's place, whatever that is. Opportunity missed, because she must take the lead at home now. 


She makes cocoa and soda crackers are nibbled. I guess that's what passes for comfort food in 1917. She sends the younger kids off to play to get distracted, but finds them, along with Charlie and Henny at the bottom of the stairs waiting for the phone to ring. Get used to it girls. It finally does, mama is safe! And there is much rejoicing.


In the next chapter, SABBATH WITHOUT MAMA, the girls decide to make a schedule and Taylor as a cute detail quote dishes were stacked in the sink and beds weren't made while girls struggled over the schedule. Because planning to do work is infinitely more fun than actually working.


Henny, of course, plans to have servants instead of doing her own house cleaning. Classic Henny. She quickly volunteers for Charlie duty. Grace prefers to help the girls rather than her own mother. Since she is in the kitchen, Ella can lay out a nice bit of exposition on how to make meat kosher. Henny is hanging out with the girls rather than watching Charlie. So he takes this opportunity to  almost kill them all playing with matches


Henny does a great job getting Charlie to confess his crime in the most sympathetic manner. This is, I believe, the first instance of her not sucking in this book.  Perhaps she would make a good detective. 


The chapter ends with Papa telling a nice story about a good angel and a bad angel judge the Sabbath preparation of different families while behaving passive aggressively towards one another. He assures them that if their Sabbath was observed, the good angel would come out the winner. 


DINING OUT is the cringiest chapter in the series! Compare this to the Rays dinner at the Moorish Cafe; and of Betsy and Julia turning down the offer of going to the Moorish Cafe after a dance with Phil and whoever Julia was torturing at the time. I guess things are different in the big city and going to a restaurant isn't as scandalous.  Strolling down Broadway Ella thinks "This is the Enchanted world of adults and I belong to it too." Remember that glorious feeling?


The place is described fancily. There's nothing like a New York restaurant. Julie manfully requests a booth and "my good man's"  the busboy and while he is clearly mortified, Ella is charmed by his manliness - all she sees is suave confidence. She orders a sandwich because she has silverware terror. And she is flummoxed by the olives. I've been lucky and then I will just dive into eating regardless of fork or olive confusion.They eat awkwardly. 


Once Jules drops his cutlery and longs for the floor to open up and swallow him, they both confess their lack of confidence and realize the other is just as nervous. It breaks the tension they celebrate with Parfait Royals.


Not a lot of questions this time around, but perhaps we are having group read fatigue and these will help keep the pressure off!


Have you ever had to "take charge" of the house?

[My parents moved to Syracuse, New York the summer after my freshman year of college and then went on a cross-country trip with my little sister. So I was keeping house for just me in a strange city. I spent the whole summer waitressing (badly) renting videos and eating takeout from work. It was glorious.]


Let's have those awkward date stories!! 

[One night in college when I was coming home from work, I got a flat tire. Some guy pulled over and gave me a ride back to campus. Two nights later I was coming home and someone was pulled over at the same spot on the highway and it was the SAME GUY! So the good Samaritan guy and I decided that it was kismet that we both pulled over for each other so we planned to meet for drinks the next night after work. It ended up being awful. We had nothing in common, he was 20 years older than me, had just been released from one of our local correctional institutions and worst of all, I had just started casually dating this guy I really liked and he was at the same bar where the GS and I were! Luckily, the guy I had been seeing was impressed by the coincidence of the story and we went out again. That guy has been my DH for nearly 30 years. Whew!]


And if you don't like these - I will post again on Monday, Wednesday and Friday! After that - Constance is up with THEY LOVED TO LAUGH on the 18th! 


April 12, 2021

Well, Mama’s still in the hospital, but things are looking up. Everyone has big plans. Ella has a date and it’s a mysterious one! Henny Charlie and Sarah are going to Crotona Park to watch people fish. Snooze. Gertie and  Charlotte volunteer to hold down the fort.


Grace gives Ella a garden bouquet to take to Mama. Thoughtful, but one more thing to carry. Thank goodness Jules can be a pack mule. And that pack mule drops a bombshell, he's enlisting. He gives an impassioned and thoughtful speech about his motives. He kisses her cheek and leaves her on the hospital steps.


Meanwhile back at the ranch, Gertie and Charlotte are visited by Mrs. Shiner, Lena’s  upstairs neighbor whose dinner they pillaged. She comes by with some corned beef, because she is a lovely human.


Char and Gert fall all over themselves to offer hospitality. They pour her a seltzer, as politeness demands, but they are mortified that they have no food! She insists she needs no sustenance, but they demand, she tries to dissuade them, but there is none of that. They are Mama’s girls and she WILL be fed! She realizes it is futile and rests on the couch reading the paper while they attempt a pancake - the traditional hostess treat.


This is one of the most charming unexpected guest stories I have read. Compare the lovely Mrs. Shiner to that nasty piece Phyllis Brandish dropping in on Betsy. They engineer a gorgeous pancake only to have it hit the floor before it can be consumed. Hence the title of the chapter OUT OF THE FRYING PAN. Were you wondering when I was going to get to it? Mrs. Shiner saves the day which is apparently her superpower by offering to take the girls out for ice cream.


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Mama is still goldbricking in the hospital and there's a nice bit about “the relative dish”,  the times of trouble casseroles that are brought by family.


Mama has GOT to come home, but before she does, there is a beautiful description of the Sabbath table and the ritual surrounding it. Papa describes the way all five senses are used in this act of worship and once again it makes me regret the lack of ceremony in my midwestern Presbyterian upbringing. I was such a Bonnie. (JK, not even a little bit!)


And then Mama comes home. What A GOOD WEEK it is!  Can you imagine her joy to see her beautiful children have managed to take care of each other and their home so well? As Jen DK would say,  it's because she was a perfect mother who has never made a single mistake.


There is a little recap about how everyone helped out. Even the generally useless Mr. Healy would take Charlie on as “Helper”.  Ella is teased about taking care of a husband and Henny plans to marry someone who will be completely hen-peckable. I bet that is going to go well for her…


But danged if Henny  doesn't come up with a clever plan to hook Grace up with Jule’s basic training pal, the  jaunty, color-ad-type Bill Talbot. This is the second and last illustration of Henny not sucking in this book.


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Such good news for Hyman and Lena! Their “little stranger” arrives and he is healthy and Lena is well. There is something weird though. Hyman seems to think that it is a big deal to have a boy. That poor man thinks boys are better. Hasn't he even been reading these books?


There is going to be a ceremony called the P’IDYON HA-BEN. And everyone is excited about it. They go to the new parents’ home and my beloved Mrs. Shiner is acting as Lena's wingman at the celebration.


Grace is there so there's an excuse to explain stuff to the goyim. Charlie is disappointed not to see Benny the pigeon, just proving that he is the weakest link. What it boils down to is that the Cohan holds the baby for ransom - he is going to have to serve in the temple as is the obligation of first born sons. But Hyman gladly pays the ransom and the bebe is freed up for”the study of the law, the state of marriage and the practice of good deeds.”


It is so sweet as they celebrate. There is much rejoicing and Lena gives the girls a blessing - “Girls, being married and having a baby is the most wonderful thing in the world. Merchum by you!” (may it happen to you). Now this strikes me as the most egregious propaganda. I got married and had a baby and it was fine. Gosh that sounds awful. It was wonderful, blah, blah, blah… But there are many other things that are equally as wonderful - for example rollercoasters, really good bourbon, charades. But she means it. And I love how her fearless rescue of a stranger’s child, Charlie, has led her to this place of overwhelming happiness. And I look forward to the fanfic where Hyman passes painlessly and Lena and the widow Shiner decide to travel the world together spreading joy and kindness wherever they go.


So not to be indelicate, but they skipped completely over the bris. Would the girls have gone to that? I understand why Taylor didn’t want to put such a penis-centric event in the book, but is that the sort of thing that children would attend now or back in the day?


And here are some other questions as well - 

Mrs. Shiner, unexpectedly drops in - do you do that? Do people do that to you?

[I live in New England where this rarely happens, except for my sister's mother-in-law who does it a lot and STAYS! (To be clear, she is the worst.) I have had people drop things off, and I think it is safer now in covid times to do that because it is clear no one is coming to visit. It's a turn and burn.]


What is your go-to meal to take to someone in times of trouble or babies?

[There is a little grocery store in town that makes the most amazing chicken pot pies. Mine are good, but it's no contest. I bring a Henry's chicken pot pie, a loaf of their fresh bread, their famous giant apple fritter sliced like bread and a salad in a bag because some people eat vegetables. I call it the White Starches of Compassion meal.]


Henny is pretty smart about how to catch a fella - have you cleverly used your wiles to trap a lovah?

[I KNOW I have posted the story of how when Rich called me and said 

"We should go out some time." 

And I said, "Oh, that would be great!" 

And then he said nothing for ages,like a dolt. I jumped in and invited him to come watch movies with me at my friend's apartment where I was cat-sitting for the weekend. He said yes and I gave him the address. 

We hung up and I immediately called my friend Sherry and said, "I need your apartment tomorrow night and you need to be gone!" And God bless her, she and her boyfriend went camping for the whole weekend. Which is how long our first date lasted...]


And that is that!

April 15, 2021


Here is our next installment. I fear my questions are getting weirder and weirder. This afternoon I was interviewed for a librarian podcast and I went on and on about BT and AoaKF. I sometimes do wonder how I come off to normal people. Oh well, shall we?


The dumbwaiter! How I long for a dumb waiter between this book and Harriet the Spy. Ella and Grace chat through the dumbwaiter and we learned Bill  has written to Grace! Success - Merchum by you!! - as Lena would say. Jules writes that they are about to go on leave and Ella is worried because this likely means they're headed overseas. Grace clearly doesn't realize this and is in Teen Angel mode.


The day of their arrival comes and the girls are arranging themselves for the most fetching tableau. But Henny has no chill at all. You know she's dying to go to war. I'd like to see Henry versus the boche. Sara is studying on Sunday-  grind - more tidbits are dropped about some history prize.


Jules looks dreamy and they share a quick hug. Then Bill pops up fishing for compliments. He is immense and charming as hell and Grace is immediately taken with him.


The family is bonkers and Bill, that old Sam Hutchinson / Harry Kerr mashup, takes it in stride. Charlie is nearly as infatuated as Grace. The two couples double date all week and it is wonderful.


The last night before the boys ship out, they go to Manhattan to ride a double-decker bus and the conductor uses the word "blowy” to  mean windy. I say that a lot and always wondered where I got it from. I imagine it was here!


There's so much in this chapter that puts me in mind of Maud, the description of the evening, Ella hearing the bus wheels chant, “the last time, the last time” like Betsy would hear on the train. Even knowing she needs to put on a brave face like Betsy did at Christmas in BaJ. And they sing “There's a Long, Long Trail a-Winding” just like the crowd. As a matter of fact, they  sing for an audience of their fellow passengers as the bus goes ROUND AND ROUND and they are a big success.


And then the boys leave, the girls cry, and nobody appears to get kissed.


I recall this next chapter being annoying and preachy. But perhaps I am misremembering. Let us see.


Charlotte likes to help Tanta Olga the childless seamstress. She can think up stories as she sews and she'll get a dime to buy a thrift stamp which appears to be some kind of war bond. Sara would love to go too, but she has to study for, well, you know what… So Charlotte heads out on her own.


Charlotte read-walks on her way to the EL! She is reading Wuthering Heights and it has her feeling all funny inside.  She sees Miss Brady and they have such a nice chat about the book and wartime collecting that Charlotte fears that she may miss her train and runs onto the L without paying her NAUGHTY NICKEL car fare!


Sure enough it is irritating. Charlotte wrestles with her conscience for four pages and confesses at the end and is rewarded with a nickel for being an honest girl.


Okay, this chapter is full of really great details like the thrift stamps, collecting fruit stones and even the ticket chopper. But I hate the moral that she GETS a nickel at the end for being honest. Just have her not get in trouble. I spent much of my life waiting to get rewarded for doing the right thing when in reality I should just have been doing the right thing for its own sake. Of course I have a very weak character. But still.


This RED BOGEYMAN, could it be... Satan?


The High Holy Days are upon us now. Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur and Succos, but there's no family Succah. The neighborhood synagogue is building a big one to share.


Jules and Bill are in France and sending back letters. Ella and Grace are making care packages for the holidays. As the girls prep their packages they draw parallels between the Jewish and Christian holidays. But there is one outlier and he is about to scare the crap out of Charlie.


Ella asks about the tree, never having seen one on the Lower East Side. Grace is all “You can see ours!” but Mrs.  Healey says “Ask you folks first.” Which seems so sensible and respectful of different beliefs. Papa's like  “Okay but just to look. Don't get all Pagan.”


The kids see the tree and are floored at the beauty of it, at least the younger three. Charlie loses his mind and breaks a ball. Mrs. Healy takes it in stride.. Then an evil demon comes in and Charlie is the only one who recognizes him for the boogie man he is.


Just kidding! It's Mr. Healy dressed as Santa for a bit of fun.


Just as the evening winds down Bill's mom calls to let Grace know that he is missing in action. Cliffhanger!


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Okay. Questions. You were warned... They suck.


Did you have access to a dumbwaiter growing up? Do you have any dumbwaiter stories? 

[I almost got stuck in one at my church as a kid, but then I got out. Isn't that a fascinating story?]


Do any of you read-walk?

[YES!! Even now, if I am reading something good I will bring it with me as I am doing deliveries at work and the students see me read-walking around the halls and know I am obsessed with my book. I don't do it outside as much as I used to because I am afraid of falling and breaking a hip as one does...]


How aware were you of other religion’s holidays as a kid?

[My church was obsessed with Passover so we had a Seder in the fellowship hall every year. Which seems like a kind of cultural appropriation now, but they did mean it respectfully. I loved the AoaKF books for the very reason that they exposed me to the beauty of the Jewish religious year in a more authentic way. But that was as far as I went as far as understanding other religions for a long time. And I don't think I'm the only one.  I am surprised even now how few of my adult colleagues understand what is involved in Ramadan. We have students who are fasting and yet are still required to take part in gym class. They aren't allowed to DRINK WATER until night time. Lay off, coach! Grrr...]


I apologize for the questions, but hopefully the BIG FINISH will be better! Also, I am halfway through THEY LOVED TO LAUGH and I am in love. It is so wonderful. I am team Jonathan, but I do appreciate Clarkson as well. And that's all you'll get out of me!


There are struggles in the chapter PLAY FOR SHAVOUS such as meatless days heatless days Jules wounded and no one knowing what happened to Bill


Jules goes back to active duty and Ella is worried so she throws herself into art. She directs a Sunday School play about Ruth and Naomi for Shabbos, the Feast of Weeks. This is when the first fruits were brought to the temple and the poor could follow the cleaners in the fields of the rich. In Christianity these are used metaphorically but no feasting is involved. What a rip-off! It's all so the birthday of Judaism when Moses brought down the 10 commandments.


The whole family is involved in the play and it's going well, but Ella is worried about her Ruth because she's not a good enough singer.


Everyone comes to the play, even my beloved Mrs. Shiner! Henny and Ella  invent lip syncing.  [I forgot that Henny was awesome at this time. That makes three…] The wonderful story of Ruth and Naomi is told, Gertie loses her skirt. Ruth and Boaz marry, everyone eats blintzes and the Red Cross get $225.


Wow, who knew THE HISTORY PRIZE would come up again at the end of the book. I sure didn't see that coming! 


Dorothy Miller is going down! Sarah confesses her nerves but. Dorothy doesn't give an inch, she boasts! Why don't we use the word boast anymore? It’s all bragging isn’t it?


Sarah won't know the results until graduation day and Mama remind sher about doing your best being more important than  winning. Sarah has sewn her graduation dress and is ready to move up. 


At graduation, the award is announced and Sarah is gracious in defeat when Dorothy wins but she's torn up inside. And then the next day she receives a gift of a lovely dictionary which raises the theory that Miss Brady must be an independently wealthy woman in addition to a teacher because dictionaries are spendy. And it means the world to Sarah.


Germany has surrendered. So we've jumped ahead to the end of March. The family wants to see the boys march through the victory Arch on 23rd Street to celebrate their HOMECOMING. This was a temporary arch and if you want some background you can look at this Daily Beast article by Allison McNary. https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-world-war-one-victory-arch-demolished-in-a-new-york-minute


The city is in full party mode and the parade is magnificent. When they get home there is a ruckus at the Healey’s.  Mama rushes in hoping to help in what ever tragedy has happened, but it  turns out Bill was a POW the whole time. We don't get to see the reunions of Grace and Bill or even Ella and Jules, but Jules was glimpsed in the parade but I assume Ella of all of a Kind family will fill us in. 


And that’s the end! 


April 18, 2021

I don’t have any questions other than how many of you won academic awards? I bet we’re loaded with those sorts of awards in this bunch.


But we don’t have TIME for more questions because THEY LOVED TO LAUGH starts tomorrow. I finished reading it Friday and it was WONDERFUL!!


I was going to put a bonus recap of ELLA OF ALL OF A KIND FAMILY after this. I just reread it and it wasn’t as awful as I remembered. I think the problem is that it is not ever the first one in the series that anyone reads and so after the sheer perfection of at least 3 out of the previous 4 books, it is a bit of a let down. Also,  Ella is kind of a goody-two shoes. 


I am going to quote the wise Jan Sasser here - 


I just finished Ella.


I found the book every bit as charming as at least the three middle ones. I do think the first book was the best. But this book continues to grow the family (although the emphasis is definitely on Ella), and add bits of Jewish customs and traditions, and demonstrate the history of the time - particularly the suffragettes and the changing expectations of women.  And I felt that Ella's inner conflict was modern and relevant.


And the illustrations: I am a sucker for a good illustrator, and these books are just lovely one after another. My hand is itching to color some of these black and white illustrations.


I would like at least five more sequels with an emphasis on each of the other children through their young adulthoods.


And then there's the two boys yet to be born . . .


Just my two cents, but I think the haters are wrong and this book should be prized as highly as the other sequels.


She made me think of it differently too and now I really want those five more sequels. Okay, there is another question - what happens in those mythical Henny, Sarah, Charlotte and Gertie sequels? GO! Okay, even a Charlie sequel if we must.


Thanks for taking part in the group read. I will see you at the Gardner’s!

Saturday, January 23, 2021

DADDY LONG LEGS - part 7 - All is revealed!

This is for Saturday 1/23! 

March 5th. - Judy waxes nostalgic about the John Grier Home and what she learned there. 

  • Julie never knows she is happy
  • Judy's perfectly sure every happy moment.
  • "I've a heart for any fate."

LOCK WILLOW. April 4th. - Sallie and Judy are at LW for Easter vacation and she's writing a book!

  • Jervie says "Write what you know."
  • "I was quite lonely without him--"
  • Animal tragedies abound at Lock Willow!

May 17th. - Judy writes a brief, heartfelt invitation for DLL to come to her graduation.

  • "Yours, with love and writer's cramp."

LOCK WILLOW. June 19th. - Judy has graduated and is writing at Lock Willow. 

  • Jervie and Jimmy's roses? Second best.
  • Lots of male visitors at LW.
  • Don't attend commencement? Dead to her...

July 24th. - All the news from Lock Willow - including a recent visit from Jimmie McBride and a forthcoming visit from Master Jervie.

  • Judy's in LOVE - with her book.
  • Marriage is a deteriorating process, evidently. 
  • Judy might raise broilers! Snappy ones?
  • Jimmy's no financier - he's too kind-hearted.

August 27th. - This is a brokenhearted little missive of loneliness. 

  • New York? Switzerland? Where are you Daddy?
  • "I wish I knew you, Daddy."
  • Elmer H. Griggs must be horrid.

LOCK WILLOW, September 19th. - Judy is very unhappy and needs to talk to DLL.

  • "Something has happened...I need advice."

LOCK WILLOW, October 3d. - Judy completely spills her guts to Daddy Long Legs about her love for Jervie. 

  • She sold her book! Still heartbroken...
  • Letters very full of Master Jervie. 
  • Fourteen year start gives him edge.
  • "I miss him, and miss him. "
  • "I may be dreadful, you know."
  • Writer and wife, not mutually exclusive. 
  • Jervie's sick AND DLL's sick? Strange...

October 6th. - Judy firms up her plans to finally meet Daddy Long Legs!

  • If there's a butler, she'll faint!
  • "Shall I ask for Mr. Smith?"

Thursday Morning. - Judy writes to her "very dearest Master-Jervie-Daddy-Long-Legs-Pendleton-Smith"

  1. Ew...Judy writes sappy love letters.
  2. "... like a shadow on my heart."
  3. Phew, the butler was very nice!
  4. "Dear little Judy, couldn't you guess...?"
  5. Judy would make a bad detective.
  6. "I can't be disrespectful to you!"
  7. She belongs to someone at last.
Okay, dry your tears and lets look at some questions!

The letter where Judy says she is aware of being happy whenever she is happy was so interesting. Do you recognize your own happiness when it comes upon you? [I don't think I did when I was younger, but now that I have the wisdom of advanced age, I like to think I appreciate my own happiness more.]

Daddy Long Legs doesn't come to Judy's graduation. Did it feel like a big deal when you graduated from whatever you graduated from? [High school was weird because I was supposed to sing and then I had laryngitis and wasn't able to. But it was good because at my sister's and my graduation party (she from college, me from HS) that afternoon she got me wasted and I was thrilled to have an excuse to not talk and take a much needed nap. College graduation wasn't a big deal, I had mentally checked out 2 years before and was just marking time like in prison. (Although I do have a lovely picture of me with my future in-laws at the ceremony that I now treasure.) Grad school graduation was a HUGE deal to me. That's what happens when you pay for it yourself! I have a funny story about how petty I was to a classmate that day - as we were one-upping each other about how hard we worked getting our degree. But it has profanity so I shan't share it here.]

Judy loves writing! It is wonderful that she found her calling. Do you feel like you've found your calling? [They say find a job you love and you won't work a day of your life. I haven't worked since I was 40 and became a high school librarian. Hands down, it's the best job in the world.]

Judy reaches out to DLL about her Jervie problems. He now knows the jig is up and is, frankly, probably pretty worried that Judy will hate him for lying. Do you think it is his near-death experience that allows him to come clean? [I'm not sure that's why I'm asking...]

We find out that Judy turned down Jervie's marriage proposal because he's too fancy. He think's it's because of Jimmie McBride. If Judy hadn't written to DLL about it, would Jervie have figured it out eventually? [I'd like to think so, but Judy wrote all these letters and didn't connect the dots so sometimes you just can't see what's right in front of you!]

Do you think that Jervie-Long-Legs' near-death experience is what keeps Judy from being angry about the lying? Or did the fact that he knew her so well from her letters convinced her that he was aware of what he would be getting into in marrying her? And does that make up for the manipulation? To some degree? [I'm not sure about the first part. Even re-reading with the my mental gaslighting alarm going off, I still can't stop loving that man.]

And finally...

Did you see the big reveal coming? [The first time, not at all! But on subsequent rereads, I usually remember eventually.]

Thank you so much for joining me and for your awesome responses! Jessica starts FAMILY SABBATICAL on Monday. Be there or be square!

xoxo
Barb, currently in Beverly, but about to head for the South of France with the Ridgeways!

Thursday, January 21, 2021

Daddy Long Legs - part 6

[ For Thursday - pp. 194-227]
March 5th. -Inspired by a crabby sermon, Judy decides to give dignity a try.
  • "The Modern Generation" 100+ years ago.
  • When Judy's respectful she's quite dull. 
April 24th. -Judy apologizes for not sending a newsy letter while actually sending a newsy letter. 
  • Jervie missed them - off to Princeton!
  • [Master Jervie must have been STEAMED!]
  • A college girl gets so tired.
May 15th. - Judy's musings on public transportation, swimming lessons, her correspondence with men, the Senior Dramatic Club and her paper on the Care of Dependent Children.
  • Fancy ladies don't chat in cars. 
  • The probity of ones instructor is suspect. 
  • Playing tennis gains exemption from gym??
  • Someone is doubling down on their post.
June 4th. - Judy makes her own summer plans again. Let's see how this plays out.
  • Julia goes abroad ALL THE TIME!
  • Mrs. Charles Peterson seems perfectly lovely. 
  • Up on her feet - almost walking.
  • Golf? Hunting? Horses? Meditation? What, DLL?
June Tenth. - We knew it would come to this. Judy has to refuse DLL doing something too generous. 
  • "One doesn't miss what one never had." [I know, it's 7 words, but I can't leave it out. It made me cry SO HARD!!]
  • The English language needs another pronoun.
  • Happiness as a matter of course.
  • The World would repudiate her claim.
  • Jervie knows Judy is an orphan. 
  • Florence - a most uncommonly spoiled child.
  • She'll be a very useful person. 
  • Marry an undertaker - inspire his work.
August 19th. - Judy describes her cotton-headed charges. 
  • Latin, English, algebra - two stupid girls.
  • Fortunate enough to obtain stupid husbands. 
  • A world filled with stupid men. 
  • No one can dictate to Judy! 
  • Master Jervie will be so surprised. 
CAMP MCBRIDE, September 6th. - Judy gets the message to go to LOCK WILLOW just a bit too late - HA!
  • She loves him - despite his faults. 
October 3rd. - Judy's back at school updating Daddy Long Legs on her love life and her fashion choices. 
  • "We do arrive fast in America!"
  • Master Jervie was NOT so surprised. 
  • Men, just leave intrigue to women.
  • Julia's gowns could clothe the angels. 
  • "He eloped with a chorus girl!" 
  • Those fricking blue checked gingham aprons. : (
November 17th. - Judy throws her own book-baby into the fire like an evil, self-hating half-Jo, half-Amy hybrid!
  • Good deal of humor - questionable taste. 
  • Was Judy writing knock-off Edith Wharton? 
  • Never accused of being a pessimist.
December 14th. - Judy waxes philosophic about dreams,  the meaning of life, cat duodenums and her own power to accomplish. 
  • Life is monotonous enough at best. 
  • She believes in free will - unreservedly. 
  • Hmmm...maybe she's reading Ayn Rand. 
  • This is a very abstruse letter. 
December 26th. - A charming thank you note from a happy girl.
  • Seventeen Christmas presents? She'll become plutocratic!
  • Homemade neckties are usually quote wobbly. 
  • The sweetest man that ever lived.
January 9th. - Judy lobbies DLL to provide for a poor family. 
  • "Perhaps it's all for the best."
  • She's for a more militant religion.
  • Philosophy teacher lives in the ether.
  • Judy's much like The Little Princess
Jan. 12th. - Judy delivers the check and is irritated that the mom can't tell the difference between the good Lord and DLL. 
  • DLL earns 10,000 fewer purgatorial years. 
Feb. 15th. - Judy is obsessed with Pepys.
  • Self-Government association abolishes the ten-o'clock rule. 
  • Preachers will preach about smart girls...
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And now some questions!!

Judy notices the fancy lady not speaking in the streetcar. Do people speak on public transportation or in line a the grocery store where you live? [In New England they most certainly do not! But every once in awhile I can turn a Yankee with my mid-western charm.]

So Jervie is writing to her now so he is getting letters as Jervie. You know, just plain old Jervie, nothing to see here... Is it creepy yet? [Yes, a little bit.]

Would you have taken the trip and devil take the hindmost? [I read a quote that "Privilege makes people allergic to consequences." and that is kind of my attitude here. I would 100% take this trip, but I certainly understand why Judy didn't.]

Okay, Jervie is definitely taking advantage of his knowledge and being a bit manipulative. It rings SO MANY BELLS now that we know about gaslighting, but back then it was romantic and, if you had already read the book, clever.  Are you able to read it with old lady eyes or does it feel too gross?
[Almost all of my reading is with old lady eyes, but I am glad to have a bit of a different perspective this time around.]

Judy calls her charges "stupid". I have a friend from church who I love, but she told me that she wouldn't let her kids use the word stupid when they were little. I asked her what she told them to say when something was, in fact, stupid. and she said they used the word "silly". Needless to say, this made me immediately insane because those words are NOT synonyms! Are there any words you weren't allowed to say (that weren't actual swears) because your parents wouldn't allow it? [We weren't allowed swears or hateful speech, which is good.  But we had made-up names of bodily functions that were freaking weird, looking back. With my kids I wouldn't let them "take the name of the Lord in vain" just because if they ever did it in front of my very religious mom it would break her heart. (I have found the Lord to be more forgiving.) But I was pretty okay with anything else.]

It sounds like Judy's first (burned up) novel was set in New York Society. Has anyone read Edith Wharton's THE CUSTOM OF THE COUNTRY? It was written the year after DLL and is about a midwestern social climber in New York. There is a New York Times bookclub reading it, and I know I will never have time to read it before January 28 so if you have read it, would you please let me know if there are any parallels? [I have not read it, I do not know. Hence the question.]

They're making fudge - so Betsy-ish.  It seems like a lot of work, now that you can just buy candy.  Do any of you make fudge? [Good grief, no. I had to really struggle to finish my Christmas candy in a timely fashion. If I learned to make my own delicious candy, I'd be doomed! But mostly I don't care for fudge.]

I'm getting a little whiplashed - Judy says a couple letter ago that free will determines her life and she's responsible for her own success but she recognizes that fate has dealt the little seamstress a terrible hand. Is this just that young adult wrestling with how the world works?  Would she have been so confident in her juxtaposing ideas if she didn't have her education? [I don't have a theory on this, but I'm interested in yours.]

A beautiful commentary on human nature, Judy says, is the fact that now that they can keep their lights on all night, they tend to all fall asleep before 9:30. Are you a night owl or a morning person? How much of that is based on the feeling of "getting away with something"? [I used to be such a night owl when I was young and told to go to bed by my parents. And when my kids were young and I was exhausted all the time I dreamed of being able to stay up late. Now that I get to make all my own decisions, I adore going to bed early and getting up at the crack of dawn. What is wrong with me?]

Of COURSE I pronounced Pepys "peppies" when I first read this. Didn't you?

The last post for this read will be on Saturday and then I pass the torch to Jessica for FAMILY SABBATICAL by Carol Ryrie Brink. I've never read it and am quite excited!

xoxo
Barb

Tuesday, January 19, 2021

Daddy Long Legs part 5

For Tuesday - [ pages 162-193]

August 25th. - Master Jervie finally visits!

  • Mrs. Semple pampers Master Jervie scandelously!
  • MJ is quite the citified dandy.
  • "Nearly as long-legged as you, Daddy"
  • The whole secret is being pliable. 
  • Judy and Jervie completely skipped church.

Ship ahoy, Cap'n Long-Legs! - Judy is obsessed with Robert Louis Stevenson and wonders about DLL's identity.

  • Could it be he knows Jervie?

September 10th. - Judy misses Jervie, discusses her writing and immediately gets published!

  • Fifty dollars is quite the windfall.
  • A scholarship - what a terrific honor!

September 26th. - Judy stands firm about accepting the scholarship, and for the first time she doesn't throw a hissy when disagreeing with DLL.

  • Our little girl is growing up!
  • Keeping up with Julia is expensive.

September 30th. - Judy digs in on the scholarship.

  • "Strangers! - And what are you, pray?"
  • It's no favor. It's a prize.
  • Henceforth Judy intends to be FIRM!

November 9th. - A delightfully chatty missive about holiday plans, mythical creatures and Charity and Reform

  • Wasteful country...throwing away women's votes.

December 7th. The founder's dance is quite the barn burner. 

  • Little foundling is getting quite prominent.
  • What a colorless life men lead. 
  • Judy's terrible, vain secret - she's pretty.

December 20th. Judy's off on vacation, but first a sweet "thank you" note for her Christmas box. 

  • She's deflected by such worldly frivolities. 

January 11th. - Judy's back at school and spilling the beans about vacation.

  • Long time no letter - blame NYC.
  • No idea entered the front door.
  • Judy's future children? DEFINITELY not Pendeltons.
  • Socialist = long hair and red ties.
  • Judy's secret - live in the now.

Dear Comrade,  - Judy declares herself a Fabian. 

  • Nobody wants revolution tomorrow at breakfast!

February 11th. - a brief update

  • Will write soon - examinations are grueling.
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Is Jervie selfish or just so at home at Lock Willow that he feels free to behave naughtily? [I shan't give my opinion, but I do have one!]

Judy finally stands up to DLL and won't back down. Do you think it could be because he has confidence "handling" rich men because of her dealings with Jervie? [Clearly, I think that by the way I asked the questions. Not very sporting of me. But I am open to other interpretations.]

Judy realizes she is pretty! When did you realize you were pretty? [Sadly, I didn't realize it until I was about 50. I wish I had know when I was younger, but maybe it saved me from having bad character. Every morning when I go to work I ask Rich, "Aren't you lucky to have a wife as cute as me?" And he agrees that yes, yes he is.]

Judy is not impressed with the Pendletons. They seem cold and about as deep as a puddle. Does this explain a bit about Master Jervie? [Yes! That is what I didn't say in the first question!]

These questions are terrible. I will attempt better ones on Thursday!



Sunday, January 17, 2021

Daddy Long Legs - Part 4

In other news - I wanted to inform you of another mail-related activity I am involved in. There is a program called Post Crossings, where you can send postcards to strangers all over the world and receive them in exchange. I have been doing it since the beginning of covid times and am becoming more and more invested. If you are curious about it you can take a look here - https://www.postcrossing.com/ - and if you want to hear me talk about it, my friend Alix and I will be giving a virtual talk at the end of the month for our public library. You can get the info for that here - https://beverlypubliclibrary.assabetinteractive.com/calendar/hold-for-postcrossings/

[This is for Sunday 1/17 and goes from page 127-161 of my 1940 G&D copy.]

March 24th. maybe the 25th. - She wins the short story contest, she gets a part in the play and she is going to NYC - could Judy's life be any better?

  • Hamlet AND Jervie? SO MUCH FUN!

April 7th. - Judy tells the wonderful tale of her visit to the holy land - New York City.

  • Is this Candace Bushnell or Judy?
  • New York undermines John Greer Home.
  • Judy on the stage? How perfect!
  • Julia Pendleton - so nosy, so nosy.
  • Nolite te bastardes carborundorum - but gingham. 
April 10th - a brief refusal
  • No more charity, thanks. I'm good.
April 11th. - Once again, Judy learns - post in haste repent at leisure.
  • Judy is a thousand legged worm.
  • DLL doesn't belong to her. Yet.
  • Back to wall, fighting the world.
  • Childhood = long sullen stretch of revolt. 
May 4th. - Judy waxes philosophical on the nature of victory, the trouble with orphan-hood, the wonder of imagination and her favorite make-believe.

  • Patricia is a perfectly normal name!
  • Jervie's no Pendleton. DLL's no trustee.
  • Only 60 years past Jane Eyre!
  • JHG is no Lowell Institute, exactly.
  • The Tale of the Burned Woodshed
  • Imagination is the most necessary quality. 
  • Adorable tea party. must post selfie.
  • Writing to DLL acts as tonic.
Mr. Daddy-Long-Legs Smith. - The study of argumentation is strong in this one!

  • Nice outline, it lacks bullet points. 
  • Junket for dessert? No thank you.
June 2d. - Judy drops a summer bomb-shell. 
  • The McBrides have opened their home.

June 5th. - Perhaps DLL should have come clean about his identity here. 
  • What? No McBrides? Why DLL? Why?
  • [Maybe don't mention Jimmie so much...]

June 9th. - When Judy's pissed, she doesn't give ANY extra words. 
  • In compliance with instructions - Lock Willow. 
LOCK WILLOW FARM. August Third. - Judy doesn't apologize, she explains. 
  • "It's the impersonality of your commands."
  • "Arbitrary peremptory, unreasonable, omnipotent, invisible Providence"

August 10th. - Judy regales Daddy Long Legs with farm news instead of writing a story.
  • That dreadful heroine, refusing to behave!
  • Judy can't make DLL behave either. 
  • We don't care for religious innovation. 
  • Judy vows she'll see the world. 
  • Another selfie, she's so danged cute!
  • Friday. - There's going to be a special surprise guest! Can you guess who it could possibly be?
  • Mrs. Dowd's cleanliness trumps her perfidy. 
  • Hats were important before sunscreen. 
  • Says Judy, "Don't fence me in."













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Would you rather be in a play or go see a play? Why? And do you have any examples of wonderful times you have done either of those things? [I have too many backstage stories to tell and I need get this posted, but I will just say I'm a sucker for the roar of the greasepaint and the smell of the crowd.]

Do you remember your first overnight trip to a big city without a parent or guardian? Did you nearly die from the joy of it? [Yes! Being a young woman alone in a big city is just delicious! Doesn't matter which city although NYC is the one that always felt the most magical to me.]

Judy is alone in the world, for a young woman of this time that would be terrifying. In Anne with an E this was very evident in the way they presented Anne. Can anyone recommend books about girls in this situation? [I adored THE HIRED GIRL by fellow Maud fan Laura Amy Schlit! It's one of the best things I've ever read. I reviewed it here if you'd like a bigger picture.]

Judy's field day sounded fun - mine were always awful and filled with sports. Okay sporty girls - identify yourselves. Who enjoys this kind of activity? [I am singularly not sporty, but I do like to lift weights and sit in hot tubs. And I hike, but VERY slowly...]

I have never read JANE EYRE . Shocking, isn't it? I've not read WUTHERING HEIGHTS either, but I've seen the movie. I have read synopses and may have pretended to have read one or the other of those, or not corrected people when they assumed I had. What is the book you know you should have read, but just haven't, even though you believe it must be wonderful? [I already answered that, didn't I. And Jen DK has a hilarious, if possibly apocryphal story about outing me to a WORLD FAMOUS AUTHOR about this very topic. I shan't tell it, but if you ever corner her at a party, get her to tell it.]

I ate junket once, I think because of this book. I remember nothing so either it was horrible and I've blocked it out or it was just meh. Any junket eaters out there? What have you eaten because it was in a book that you may have regretted. Or fallen in love with? [Also onion sandwiches, of course. And every kid who ever read THE CHRONICLES OF NARNIA has longed for Turkish delight. Unless they have ever had Turkish delight.]

So there are a couple of points in this section where DLL crosses the line. At which point should he (or his alter-ego who we shall not name in case there is someone reading this who has never read a book before and can't see the inevitable coming) have just come clean? [So hard to say because then the book would end and no big twist ending.]

That's it for me - more Tuesday!


Thursday, January 14, 2021

DADDY LONG LEGS letters part 3

This covers pages 94-126 in my 1940 Grosset and Dunlap edition. 

LOCK WILLOW, July 12th. - Judy gives DLL the lowdown on Lock Willow.

  • Jervie: he's the family's ice cream.
  • Oh look, there's some Lesbian content!
  • Miss Jerusha Abbott, future great writer.

Sunday - This letter is full of farm news, religion and Master Jervie.

  • Thank heavens she doesn't inherit God!
  • Semples - better than their own God. 
  • Jervie was meant for something better. 
  • Drunk cow scandal rocks Lock Willow.

September 15th. - Judy comments on her weight gain. 

  • Remember when weight gain signified health?

September 25 - Back at school - Judy talks of roommates, politics and academics - particularly French.

  • Orphan rooming with a Pendleton? Democracy!
  • French convent? Foundling asylum? The same...

Vocabulary alert! 

  • Inimical means unfriendly or hostile - also intending to cause harm, yikes!

October 17th. - Those fun college debates are discussed, as well as the outcome of the election. 

  • Could one swim in lemon jelly?
  • Sally was elected! "McBride Forever!" Huzzah!

November 12th. - Judy tells her Christmas plans and sends a photo. 

  • Her first home visit's in WORCESTER??
  • The sun was in her eyes. 

"STONE GATE," WORCESTER, MASS., December 31st.  - A newsy letter about Christmas presents and the visit with the McBrides. 

  • A nice, fat, sunny cook? Anna??
  • She felt benevolent as a trustee. 
  • White gloved orphan leads the cotillion.
6.30, Saturday. - Judy describes Master Jervie's visit to...well...you know. It gets a little meta.
  • "Julia's desirable uncle" called with chocolates. 
  • Uncle Jervis - so youngish and good-looking!
  • Julia says he's never this amiable...
  • Don't throw dining-room clock into sea.
Jan. 20th.  - Judy muses on the possibility of her origins and tells a sad asylum story.
  • Oh, are we expecting a denouement?
  • Cookie stealing is a victimless crime.
  • Tied like a naughty puppy. Damn.
February 4th. - Judy mostly discusses science and history, with a wee Jimmie McBride mention. 
  • These professors keep contradicting one another!
March 5th. - The paper chase, finals and Shakespeare are all discussed. 
  • Paper chase ends at Chrystal Spring
  • What's the secret to not flunking??
  • Judy learns Shakespeare earned his reputation.
  • Judy would make a great Ophelia!

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I had to dig deep for these questions and none of them has lit my world on fire, but I feel like there have to be questions and I would find the answers interesting!

Judy is surprised that Master Jervie was a redhead. Was being a redhead a good or a bad thing when you were growing up? [I always thought it was WAY cooler to be a redhead, but apparently now it is something you get teased for.] 

Okay, you're an orphaned child. Would you prefer a french convent - pretty good food, nice-ish nuns, but no boys and lots of religion -  or an orphan asylum - terrible food, indifferent care-givers, but less structured (except on Blue Wednesday) and a change of meeting Daddy Long Legs? [I think it's a bout a 50/50 split for me.]

Did you know octagon houses existed? In a related story - what is the strangest, goofiest or silliest thing you ever argued about or discussed at length? [I did NOT know they were a thing and when I read this every other time, I assumed it was a particular octagon building on campus and not an actual trend. I went to religious school and we used to try to irritate the teachers by asking if God could create a rock so big that God couldn't lift it. Never got a straight answer on that one, but a lot of dirty looks.]



Have you ever been to Worcester? [Yes! It's right nearby and we usually have the NEWBETSY Valentine's Tea at Judith Sumner's house, which has become the McBride house in my head. Try to get yourself invited there sometime - it's lovely!]

Have you ever taken part in a Paper Chase? How was it?  [Nope, but I did watch the series on television!]

What is your favorite Shakespeare play and/or Shakespearean character? [A Midsummer Night's Dream is my favorite play, but I love the Nurse in Romeo and Juliet the best.]


Tuesday, January 12, 2021

DADDY LONG LEGS letters part 2

Here are more six word summaries from DADDY LONG LEGS. This starts on page 63 of my books and ends on page 93 - your mileage may vary.  

On the Eve.  - If only she knew to whom she was writing!

  • Julia Pendleton has no "off" switch. 
Sunday.  - She's got some good news and some bad news...
  • Successes and failures - they even out.
[no date] - A sort of a lonely letter on a stormy night.
  • Everyone needs Grandma - play along DDL. 
The Ides of March - Latin
  • Beware, Judy, Latin will pay off. 
March 26 - Judy has a hissy fit. .
  • Judy throws down. It's an ultimatum. 
April 2d. - An Apology
  • "I was badly brought up." Ouch.
April 4m - A thank you note and an apology from the infirmary
  • Her first present - the heart breaks. 
  • No more questions. Ya hate girls?
8th hour, Monday. - Finally a long newsy one full of stories of animals in peril. 
  • Far to slender to pop toads.
  • Never using THAT hairbrush again!
  • Jerusha "Judy" Abbot, meet Emily Dickinson.
  • An overstaying guest? Je suis, Ackerly.
May 27th. - Judy contemplates an offer from Mrs. Lippett and writes my six word summaries for me!
  • I HATE THE JOHN GREER HOME.
  • I'd rather die than go back. 
[no date] - It is in French so I put it in Google translate. You're welcome!

Dear Daddy-Legs-Lanyards
You are a brick!
 I'm very happy with the farm, because I've never been to a farm in my life and I hate going back to John Grier, and washing the dishes all summer. There would be danger that something awful would happen, because I lost my humility from other times and I'm afraid that someday I would burst and crush every cup and saucer in the house.
Pardon brievete and paper. I cannot send my news because I am in the French class and I am afraid that the Professor will call me right away.
Goodbye,
I like you very much.
Judy

May 30th. - Judy is in a grand mood and writes about her first meeting with Jervis Pendleton.
  • She'll write and write and write.
  • DLL's just a different trustee bug.
  • Turns out, old Jervie's a lamb. 
  • She's a girl, not a foundling. 
June 9th.  - Judy talks about her summer plans. 
  • She doesn't have to mind anyone!
LOCK WILLOW FARM, Saturday night. - Judy loves Lock Willow. 
  • Fancy Connecticut goes like Marcelle waves. 


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Were you prepared for college? What did you flunk in college? 
Did anyone ever actually use blotting paper, like for calligraphy?
Are you always the last to leave a party? Do you tell stories that amuse you and perhaps no one else? You you, like me sometimes feel like you might be like Ackerly the overstaying guest?
Could you read enough French to understand the letter Judy wrote in French class? Are you bilingual? Trilingual? A genius??
Did you have a wonderful place that meant summer to you when you were young? 

Monday, January 11, 2021

DADDY LONG LEGS letters, part 1

Here is more of the group read of DADDY LONG LEGS

October 10 -  Judy becomes accustomed to college

  • Did you even know Maurice Materlink?
  • Jerusha and Julia are born enemies?
  • My recaps are briefer than hers!

Wednesday - Unusual amounts of originality, except when Mrs. Lippett names orphans.

  • A name change! A new life!
  • She's killing me with those gloves...
  • 97 orphans into 97 twins.
October 25th. - Please excuse her exhuberance.
  • Cliffhanger over - Judy made the team.
November 15th.  - Education is fine, but it's no six new dresses.
  • Thank heavens for Pritchett's good taste!
  • Don't even with the poor box. 
December 19th - Judy creates her own imaginary DLL and vows to read.
  • Please define yourself, Daddy Long Legs.
  • Give me something to work with!
  • Vacation: three blessed weeks to read.

Towards the end of the Christmas vacation. Exact date unknown. - Well that says it all. 

  • Julia Pendelton wears silk stockings annoyingly. 
  • Judy's composite family breaks my heart. 
  • Broiled lobster, molasses candy, with love .

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Questions

When were you embarrassed that you didn't know something? I'll never forget when my mother pronounced epitome as eppy-Tome in front of my dad and he nearly drove off the road laughing. What are your Port Chere words?

Dare I ask how you decorated your dorm room?

I just did a little talk for my church about "otherness" and Judy's sense of intensity about not being labeled is still such a strong motivator, particularly among the young. One of the things I love about being over 50 is that I have fully embraced my inner weirdness - at what age did you do that?

What was your best reading vacation memory? For me it was binge-reading Neil Gaiman's AMERICAN GODS in line at Disney World about 10 years ago and getting the non from a bunch of disaffected teens on vacation with their families. Or reading THE GREAT GATSBY for the very first time at a bus stop in Brussles as bus after bus drove by and I stayed until I was finished.


DADDY LONG LEGS - Blue Wednesday

So I am going a group read of DADDY LONG LEGS for a listserv I am on and I have decided to post here while I am ramping up.

To prep for the group read I have been reading the book aloud. I am getting quite goofy with it. I have recorded it because, why not? It's in the public domain so no harm, no foul, as I believe they say in the wide, wide world of sports. I may try to attach "Blue Wednesday" to the end of this post. If you're curious about what it sounds like. I don't know if I will continue to record it, but I am really enjoying reading it aloud. It makes me much more attuned to details. 

For example, Jerusha was in charge of room F "where 11 little tots , from four to seven, occupied 11 little cots all in a row." Good grief, I was in charge of 5 toddlers for a few years and almost lost my ever-loving mind! And it sounds like she always had from four to seven. At least my kids grew up... Actually 7 is a pretty great age. I love 7-11 or so. They already have interesting, independent, sometimes even informed thoughts, but they don't know it yet. Any younger than that and they can be cute and funny, but not, generally, interesting. I guess what I have just admitted is that I socialize at an upper elementary school level. Moving on...

Soon page 23 of my copy the all-knowing narrator tells us that "Poor, eager, adventurous little Jerusha, in all her seventeen years, had never stepped inside an ordinary house; she could not picture the daily routine of those other human beings who carried on their lives undiscommoded by orphans." First off, what a gorgeous sentence. Kind of the crux of the book all in one beautifully meandering string of words. Bravo, Jean Webster. Secondly, holy shirtballs! Jerusha has NEVER been in a proper home! My gosh, it makes Jerusha's sense of humor even more amazing.

There is much to say about Mrs. Lippett, but I shall say, she's no Miss Clavell, but she's no Miss Minchin or Miss Slighcarp. And leave it at that. 

There are several words I had probably never said aloud in this chapter and I know that kind of sounds like a humble-brag because the language in here is very rich by today's "new adult literature" (it's a thing, look it up...) standards. But I am a 50+ librarian, I am supposed to know this stuff. I have an excellent reading vocabulary but I find that my speaking vocabulary is, well, I'm not giving a ton of perorations...that's for damn sure! Here are the words, by the way. I was going to write definitions, but you can look them up yourself. I want to get to the part of the book that I adore - the letters!!

Words I Have Likely Never Said Aloud Before:

  • undiscommoded
  • port cochere
  • superintend
  • punctilious
  • peroration 

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These letters are spectacular! I love epistolary novels. The gold standard is, of course, 84 CHARING CROSS ROAD because it was TRUE! But there are some other good ones - that Gurnsey Pie one. And I read a YA book about a girl who was texting with a boy but she thought she was texting with his cousin. And of course I can't remember the name of it because remembering things is for other people. Anyway - I adore reading other people's mail. I just got the letters Kurt Vonnegut wrote to his first wife in college and during WW2 out of the library this evening and I might just devour it this evening. 

There are a lot of letters in this book and I am going to do six word summaries for each one, because we have all read this and if you haven't then I will try to attach the adorable copy that I digitized to this post because you really must read it at once. I will also try to attach the audio files in case you would rather listen, but NO CRITIQUES! I know my accent changes all the time and I read too fast. I would slow down if my voice wasn't so goofy.

So in the first 2 letters (which I am going to call letters 2 and 3 because we are going to consider "Blue Monday" a letter from the omniscient narrator to us) Jerusha has just gotten to Vassar and is introducing herself to Daddy Long Legs and giving him a bead on her surroundings. 
Letter One: Jerusha bemoans lack of name originality.
Letter Two: 
My room was the contagious ward!! Or maybe Sally and Julia sound just fine. Or perhaps Homesick-Schmomesick, I'm orphan asylum raised! Or even Basketball tryouts? Good God, a cliff-hanger!

Clearly I am going to have a difficult time sticking to six words. 

If I were putting up discussion questions they would be:
What is your favorite age range of children to befriend, teach or raise? (And it is perfectly fine not to like them at all, I couldn't stand children other than my own until I mellowed with age. Stop laughing, I really have!)
Who are your favorite literary orphans? Or your favorite orphan story if you like a horrible orphan like Mary Lennox?
What are your favorite epistolary novels? How about books of real correspondence?

That's all for today. 

Here is a google file with the PDF and sound files. The PDF is adorable and I am so proud of myself for having created it, I mean, the illustrations were done by Jean Webster, but the digital version on Project Gutenberg didn't have them in there so I had to photograph the pictures from my old yellowing copy and put them in and that sort of thing is NOT my strong suit! But I did it for the greater good because those illustrations are adorable and someday I will have one of them tattooed on my body! Ooh - we should vote!

Okay, NOW that's all for today.




Saturday, December 26, 2020

Fat-Girl Romance!

 Holy cow, it has been four months since I posted. That's what I get for having a job, I guess. I am on vacation now and I have decided to review some of the media I consumed this year starting with romance novels!  It has been a weird reading year. 

Covid kind of knocked me for a loop as far as sticking to a book. (To be clear, I did not have the covid, it was just the knowing that it existed.)  If you don't count picture books, I have read fewer than 50 books this year. And by read I mean completed. I started an even 500 or so. Seriously, my ILL list looks like a cry for help! If something was magnificent, I stuck with it, otherwise it was gone. I only have thirteen 4 start books this year and almost all of them are graphic novels or nonfiction and my baseline for those is a lot higher. 

But let me get to the point - this month I found a new sub-genre - the fat girl romance - and clearly the romance aspect has done it's job because I am IN LOVE! 


I have, of course, been a bit of a romance snob. Sure, I read them as a teenager. My "First Love from Silhouette" books were read to shreds. The title of my favorite has completely left my mind. The premise was this slightly pudgy girl gets a job working at a gym and meets a popular boy. She loses enough weight to be cute enough for him to FINALLY notice her. Gosh, it was motivational... If you are hoping to develop body image issues.

It might have been this little gem wherein - "As the new girl in town, Janine Anderson had no way of knowing that she had just flipped over one of the most popular boys in school. Craig Matthews was a public figure, a star athlete already dating a cheerleader." I know I loved this one because I was so often "the new girl". I attended 3 different high schools for heaven's sake. What the heck! I tell my students that is why I am so well adjusted now. But it is a lie!

Anyway, I was just a little too old to have fallen in love with the SWEET VALLEY HIGH books and I also didn't like that Francine Pascal went from writing the amazing HANGING OUT WITH CICI and MY FIRST LOVE AND OTHER DISASTERS with the bad ass Victoria Martin and then wrote about pretty blonde twins? Ew... 

But I digress. 


SO back in October I read a review in the New York Times about SPOILER ALERT and noticed the following subtle nod to my favorite type of heroine - the fat girl. The reviewer sets the stage for the meeting of the main characters says, "after pictures of her character cosplay go viral and trolls viciously mock her body size". And my wee ears went up! Body size? Is this a big girl book? Well it sure is! April and Marcus have been best buddies online. She is a geologist and he is the star of a GAME OF THRONES like series about which she writes fan fiction. And they don't know who each other is in real life!! How perfect is that? They end up going on a date after the aforementioned fat-shaming event and hit if off.  

The book is cute as hell. It's funny and quippy and has some very steamy sex scenes that, frankly, were a little off-putting! They were also smokin' hot, but it felt weird to me to be...ahem...knowing all those details about how their parts were working. I felt a little Delores Umbridge-y. "Male and female students must remain 8 inches apart!" I mean, good for them getting it on so thoroughly, but I was reading it in public and I already suffer from unwanted hot flashes!

Marcus, the super hot celebrity, has dyslexia which is handled nicely. And parental relationships are handled in a surprisingly stark and realistic way.  There was is, however, the requisite misunderstanding that had me yelling at the characters for being so stupid about saying what they were really feeling and offering the opportunity for the other person to articulate their feelings thoroughly as well. But hey, without it, how would the action rise and fall, I suppose.


I also just finished GET A LIFE CHLOE BROWN which was equally as adorable, smutty and fun. Talia Hibbert is only 23 or 24 and has already written 17 romance novels! The heroine of Chloe Brown, in addition to being a fat girl, also has fibromyalgia. It is fascinating to me how Hibbert manages to cover all those issues in Chloe's life PLUS add the topic of one of the characters trying to recover from an abusive relationship and have this whole thing NOT feel like an after school special. There is also an interesting twist in that Chloe is a black woman who comes from a wealthy upper-class background and her love interest Red comes from a white working class background and the issue of class plays a significant role. 

This book has some real depth to the struggles of the characters. There is plenty of humpin' and pumpin' as Harry would say. And again, the part where everyone is being stupid about their stupid feelings. Is it realistic? I suppose so. Maybe I have never had to deal with that kind of drama because I refuse to stop talking about my feelings, way past the point when anyone is interested in hearing about them!

So the common denominator, besides a smart, realistic look at disability, is the bigness of our heroines. It is just a piece of their image, not their defining characteristic and I loved that. 


I read an interview with Talia Hibbert and I adored her answer to this question - 

You choose to refer to Chloe specifically as fat. Can you tell me more about the importance of using that word and normalizing it or trying to remove stigma from it?

This is kind of difficult for me to talk about extensively because I have been fat, but I am not the minute, so I never want to overstep. But the fact of the matter is that negative representation of fat women is something that hurts people deeply constantly. It’s so pervasive and it leaves people with lifelong scars, mental health issues, eating disorders, [and] all of that affects their body and their physical health. Because of that, it’s always been really, really important to me that I represent diverse body types in my romance to show that all different kinds of people can be attractive and all different kinds of people deserve happy endings. Chloe is a fat woman and that’s a positive thing. It’s important to me that it’s said explicitly and in a positive way rather than, “Oh you can’t use that word because it’s a bad word and it’s a bad thing to be.” It’s not, so that’s why that was important to me.

I love that she says she doesn't want to overstep but I feel like if you have ever been fat, you get a seat at the table. I just spent 20 minutes googleing "celebrities who used to be fat" and it was interesting. So many - Oprah, Roseanne, Adele - all the one named big girls finally took off that weight once they got enough fame and money. I am not saying it was easy for them, but I think we all know it is easier to lose weight when you can afford healthy food, a personal trainer and have the means to make it a priority. I think that is what I appreciated about these heroines - they didn't make conforming to standard body image norms a priority. And I love them for it!